I’m watching Who Do You Think You Are with Alistair McGowan. From the BBC site:
With the assistance of a local historian, Alistair finds a reference to Suetonius McGowan in a religious pamphlet. He learns that Suetonius [of Irish descent] married a noble Muslim lady, whose name was omitted from the baptism record because she refused to convert to Christianity. And thus the mystery is solved: here is the Indian link that Alistair had felt sure he would find. He does have Indian blood after all.
Here are the interesting factoids from the show. When the British colonised India in the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries, the men were encouraged to take Indian wives to cement the British hold on the area. The Anglo-Indians (people of mixed race, North-West European with at least one Indian female ancestor) tended to marry among themselves, and they took British culture, names, dress, and were Christians.
Nevertheless, there were at least some Muslims who agreed to marry their daughters to British–and Christian–men. The reason, is because Alistair’s female Indian ancestor was a noblewoman (the Muslims in that area were landowners in that time). She would have required her father’s consent for marriage. So interracial and more importantly inter-religious marriages between Muslim women and Christian men seem to have been considered possible.
This is contrary to the present widespread view that marriage between a Muslim woman and any type of non-Muslim man is (and always has) been completely prohibited. What were the religious scholars of that time and place saying about such interreligious marriages? I would be fascinated to know.
I have long suspected the scholarly censure of interreligious marriage, came out of the notion that to marry your daughter to a non-Muslim would be to set up an unequal relationship implying the woman in a higher position than her husband (i.e. non-Muslims not carrying the same status as Muslims), but I imagine in colonized India, where non-Muslims were in a higher position of status this may not have been a problem, hence a Muslim nobleman and land-owner giving permission for his daughter to marry a British Christian. Fascinating!!
[Update: it turns out Suetonious was a non-trinitarian Christian–a follower of Swedenborg–who respected the Muslims rather than being a missionary trying to convert them. Gosh sometimes I wish I was a historian, this is fascinating stuff.]